January
New Year’s resolutions are a lot more fun to make than they are to keep. If that weren’t the case, fitness centers would have to charge $5,000 a year to the people who actually use them.
In some ways, the thought process to developing resolutions is similar to developing covenants. That is, they both require thinking about what changes and opportunities the new year can offer. But are they the same thing? I don’t think so.
Resolutions are brought about in solitude. They are a result of a conversation with oneself. Covenants are developed from a conversation with God, a power higher than ourselves.
Resolutions require personal willpower. They rely mainly on our internal fortitude. Covenants are strengthened from beyond ourselves. They are empowered by God and by our faith community.
Resolutions are important. They are things that matter in our daily lives. Covenants transcend our daily lives and are important to our souls. They are part of the fabric of our lives.
As 2009 unfolds, I urge us to hold our covenants in the same sacred place as when we were developing them. They were forged from holy materials and they will be kept strong from the same power that guided us when we were co-creating them. Our covenant community will grow from the individual and collective promises that keep us together. And the fabric that is woven from so many parts will create a sacred work of art.
Happy New Year!
With optimism and hope,
Loring Fiske-Phillips